Zelandakh, on 2013-March-11, 09:36, said:
Would everyone be ok with this if Declarer needed to find a key card in the end position and could play either opponent for that card?
No. Deal with him using Law 23.
gnasher, on 2013-March-12, 04:51, said:
No laws forbids it. Law 23 relates to irregularities, not just to infractions. An irregularity is "A deviation from correct procedure inclusive of, but not limited to, those which involve an infraction by a player."
Having said that, Law 23 also uses the word "offender". Hmm.
If a player shows his hand knowing it may give him an advantage, he's committing an offence.
Trinidad, on 2013-March-12, 09:06, said:
In fact, these laws don't even say that a player is supposed to keep his cards to himself, so if a player does keep his cards to himself, that would be as much of an irregularity as showing the cards- following your reasoning. Phew, lucky that your reasoning is flawed.

Custom & practice decides much of what we do. Deviations from that are irregularities.