Vampyr, on 2015-January-18, 07:29, said:
Well, she must secretly have done a lot of good to come out positive on the balance sheet despite all of that.
That depends on your definition of "good":
You (and I) may not share the believes and morals of Mother Theresa. But there are millions of people who do.
If we want to spread our moral values universally, without giving these millions of people room for their views (no matter how silly we think they are) then we are no better than the moslim extremists in Syria and Iraq.
... Except, of course, that we know that we are right and they are wrong. But they think exactly the same... so that doesn't get us any further.
So, if you want to judge whether Mother Theresa was a good person, the only thing you can do is look at her own morals and believe system:
1) Are these morals widely accepted as good?
Whether we like it or not, the morals of Mother Theresa are commonly seen in the world as good, including her views on abortion, anticonception, divorce, etc. That is even true for her views on suffering. You cannot seriously maintain the position that her views are abnormal...
Our views are abnormal. (Though, obviously, ours are still the right ones.
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2) Did she follow her good morals, perhaps even putting these morals higher than her own self-interest?
I clearly don't know enough about that, so I won't judge her on that. But stating that she was evil because she was against anticonception (as an example) is a nonsensical argument, since it isn't established (see 1 above) that being against anticonception is evil (even if we have good, rational arguments that it is).
So, clearly, you or I are not in a position to judge Mother Theresa. We do not share her morals or believes. Let those who do share them do the judging, weighting what they consider important. If they want to consider her a saint, let them. Congrats to Mother Theresa. If they don't want to consider her a saint, then that's fine too. In our moral system sainthood isn't even defined, so why should we care?
Similarly, I do not want to be judged by the local Catholic bishop, by an American TV minister, or an imam in Raqqa. In their eyes, I must be evil, even if I would be perfect in following my own morals (which I certainly am not). (It would actually freak me out if they would consider me to be good.)
One final comment: I think this is an incredibly long discussion, that was prompted by something relatively meaingless that I wrote, without giving it much thought. I wrote in a sidenote that I could not be friends with someone if I was convinced that s/he was actively unethical at bridge, unless it would be the only flaw in his/her character... making him/her otherwise "an accepted good doer". I needed an image of "an accepted good doer" and, silly and uninformed as I was, I innocently (or so I thought) picked Mother Theresa, without thinking.
The next time, I will pick Mahatma Gandhi, though without a doubt someone will point out to me what all he did wrong. So, let's take Nelson Mandela (oh, oh, once upon a time a terrorist, and his divorce was ugly), Dag Hammarskjöld (he must have stolen apples as a kid or done something else wrong), Robin Hood (what?!? a common criminal?!?), Wilhelm Tell (freedom fighter or terrorist?), which -in the end- leaves us with Kermit the Frog ... and, unfortunately, I think there will be people who consider him evil too. (From time to time even Miss Piggy seems to think so.)
So, I fail. There is no accepted good doer. It won't be my last failure...
Rik
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