I'll now go into more detail about the context (and editorialise/rant rather more).
This E/W are the sort of players who would have long been suspended if the club had a less-than-infinite-tolerance policy. I've played against them there about three times, and each time they've been thoroughly obnoxious at the table. I won't go into the details of previous encounters (mainly because I can't remember the specifics), but this one was a level above anyway.
Before I give more detail about the OP hand, I'll rewind to the board before, the first of our two-board set. The bidding there, me (S) as dealer, favourable, went P 1
♥ 2
♠.
At this point, E asked me what 2
♠ was, and I said 'at this vul and in this seat, very wide ranging'. They objected that I 'couldn't say that' and pressed me for an exact point range, so I said 'if you want a number, about 0-13 points'. They then became very aggressive, claiming that that 'wasn't an adequate description' (obviously precise phrasing here is from flustered memory, but as close as I can remember), and that it 'must' be 'weak, intermediate or strong'.
I followed the advice from here, and just offered as neutrally as I could to get the director involved. When she came over they immediately started shouting at her and telling her that I was 'obviously dodgy' before actually describing the scenario. When they finally did, she looked at them slightly puzzled and said 'yes, that's fine. Carry on'.
They let it be known that they were very dissatisfied with this, but we carried on. At some point between now and the next board, they looked at our card, which it turned out didn't have anything like 'preempts opposite a passed hand are wide ranging'. I know this is a fault - our card changes a lot and is packed with a lot of other stuff, so we occasionally don't realise something has been omitted. That said, they did not look at it until
after asking me to describe the bid, shouting at us for it, accusing us of cheating, and getting the director ruling, so no-one can claim we misled them.
Anyway, the bad taste from that was part of the reason why I called the director on the next board for something I'd normally let go in a club. On the OP board, as soon as I reserved my rights at the end of the auction* they became very aggressive again. They were both attacking me at once, so I can't remember exactly what they said, and I don't think it was very consistent anyway. At the end of the play when slam made, I duly called the director back. The director was an elderly lady, who someone else from the club described to me after the session as 'very nice, but not really a director', and as soon as she arrived at the table, the opps started shouting at her that 'I was just trying to [do something bad. I don't remember their exact phrase]', and it took a good minute just to shut them up enough so that I could actually tell her the facts of what had happened. She looked slightly confused and just said 'that's fine, carry on'.
(* As a side query, my P said afterwards he thought doing this was discouraged now, and that we're advised to immediately call the director/that reserving rights has no legal function. Is that correct?)
At no point did she ask the opps to explain their behaviour, though they were talking enough that it was pretty clear: E admitted she had thought she was doing something stronger, and I think W even said something like 'she obviously had a strong hand' - he certainly never tried to argue that he could justify his bid from his own hand (admittedly neither of them seemed very coherent, or else I wasn't really absorbing what they were saying - it was obviously indignant noise rather than a proper discussion)
I made a token effort at trying to explain to her what I objected to about the auction, which she didn't seem to understand, then gave up since I didn't think I was going to get anywhere, and meanwhile she seemed slightly distressed by the whole thing. Meanwhile, the opps re-complained about the previous board, and, having found the system card omission pressed that point to her. She rebuked me for not having filled it in, and we carried on, them scoring 90% for this board.
For several reasons this has really ground at me:
- The system card thing was obviously in some sense our error, but it was also an obvious excuse for them to try and throw their weight around, and I'd bet serious money that if we read over theirs with a fine comb, we'd find plenty of similarly undisclosed 'just bridge'-esque agreements.
- If this was some rural club with the same 6 couples having shown up every week for the last three decades I might be less perturbed, but this was [modedit: removed exact location], a respectable enough place that it has its own premises and staff. I had no idea what to do when I encountered such weak directing. I could presumably appeal the board, but the board itself wasn't really the point - the flagrant attempt by this couple to bully us (and then to bully the director) was what really got up my nose.
- The couple in question aren't exactly strong, but they're experienced players. [modedit: removed info identifying players]
- As I said, they have a pattern of this kind of behaviour. This was by some margin the worst I've seen from them, but the same person I spoke to post-event said this matched her experiences - that they're tournament players who often try and exert their will on club players (though to be fair she did seem marginally better disposed to them than me, and didn't think they were normally outright hostile).
I'm thinking about writing a formal note to the EBU re this, not so much to complain as just to ask what I should do in situations like this - esp where, as I say, it's a prominent club that you'd expect to attract a few new players, who'd be even less well equipped to deal with this kind of crap than I was. I walked away from the table thinking 'no wonder this game is dying'.
This post has been edited by diana_eva: 2015-July-05, 13:38
Reason for edit: Removed info identifying club/persons involved