Partner led 5♦ with King played from dummy I played the 3 (standard count). Opponents attacked clubs and when I won the third round I played 4♦ having been torn between this and J ♠. Partner won with the Ace and switched to a spade. Things didn't go well from there. Partner is adamant I should have played Q♦ so he knew where it was. This scenario has come up a few times - leading an unprotected honour so partner knows where it is. This feels awkward here for all sorts of reasons, I presumably have the longest hand and don't want it blocked, I would probably switch to spades without the Q ♦, I have no other entries.
I'd appreciate the usual, helpful comments