barmar, on 2022-November-30, 17:23, said:
Most doctors know more about medicine than I do. Even when they're guessing, the guesses will be based on a medical education, which is more than I have. So why shouldn't I put faith in them? Who should I listen to instead?
Yes, I know some doctors have prescribed medicines because they're getting kickbacks from big pharma. But how am I supposed to know when this might be happening and view it skeptically?
I also put faith in car repair places, even though I've heard of scams there. Again, I can't easily tell better.
They say you should get a second opinion as a check on this. That's just too much work for me.
You mention car repair. Of course analogies are risky but it could illustrate my point.
In 1954 I bought a 1947 Plymouth. After a bit the engine was clearly having some trouble so I stopped at a repair place. They said it needed a complete overhaul. The cost would have been almost as much as I paid for the car ($175). What to do? I went to the library and read a bit (they had shop manuals, including the 47 Plymouth). I got out some tools, removed the cylinder head from the cylinder. and found that the gasket had blown. It was obvious. So I bought a new gasket for a buck or two, and put it all back together. Not hard but it was good that I had read up on it. The cylinder head is held to the block by, if I recall correctly, 12 bolts. When reassembling you don't just tighten these in any order, there is a specified sequence of bolt tightenings and you go through the sequence two or three times, each time getting them tighter. Ok, but after a while, the same problem developed. After reading and chatting with friends, I again took the cylinder head off, again the gasket was blown, but this time I took the head to a machine shop. They said the head had become a bit warped and they could fix it by shaving it down. The cost was low, they did it right then, I got a new gasket, put everything back together, that did it, no more troubles with blown gaskets.
Ok, maybe if I had left my car with the shop that said I needed a full overhaul they would have quickly noticed the blown gasket and then thought to check the cylinder head to see if it was warped. That's very optimistic. They saw a 15-year-old sucker standing in front of them and they said the car needs a full overhaul. They would have charged me a bundle and, most likely, they would not have thought of shaving the head. Too bad, kid. As one adult told me after ripping me off in a different situation "You're a juvenile, you got no standing".
Now I don't think the medical field is, at least for the most part, trying to rip us off. But whether it's my car or my body, it is best to ask a few questions before just doing as told.
Of course I do not think that I know more about medicine as a total subject than doctors do. But when it is a specific issue with specifically my body, I think it is both fair and wise to expect something resembling explanation and discussion rather than "I'm the doctor, do what I say". As I grow older, I have found it more and more important to do some reading on my own, to ask questions, and seek answers. This is by no means theoretical, I could lay out many instances where this has paid off very well.