I learned most of my bridge on BBO, Beginner Intermediate Lounge and BBO forums. It was here on Forums that I discovered the Laws and found the Rulings topics about BITs, MI and UI absolutely fascinating. I got a copy of the Laws of Duplicate Bridge, searched out Appeal Casebooks from various governing bodies and took a Club Directors course.
You can imagine my horror when I started playing at clubs and the majority of the players and Directors seemed completely unaware of the Laws or simply didn't want to rock the boat.
There appears to be much disparity between how people would rule here and what actually happens in live games, with the exception of 'top flight' events. I'm an average club player, I don't play so much now, but before Covid I would play at clubs and tournaments fairly regularly. Once or twice I played in, and was spat out of, National events and some Regional events where the players were very ethical. I can't remember any specific Director calls in these events as they were extremely rare. This was very different from my experience with lower level tournaments and Club games.
To help me separate reality from "online forums", I would appreciate the Directors, when responding to ruling questions, to include where, country, region or even club, what level they are directing and if their answer reflects how they rule at the table or if the answer is their interpretation of the Laws.
For example, here is a quote from another thread. Law 41 says you should make an opening lead face down after 3 passes but pescetom makes it clear that the law is ignored in some places.
pescetom, on 2022-November-08, 07:46, said:
Law 41 says that he should make his opening lead (face down) after the third consecutive pass. It seems he did that, so no infraction there. If he was lightning fast about it then there is potential UI to partner.
If he also faced the lead without giving anyone a chance to seek clarification then he violated Law 41 (unless his RA mandates face up leads), although that behaviour is widespread and condoned in some places.
Thank you.